Parental responsibilities and roles are very important for the parents to make their children prepared for the future. The way a father or mother treats a child affects greatly for his/her future growth both mentally and physically. If parents fail to take great care of their children, then those children might go astray and will claim their parents for their misfortune. Every mother and father love his or her children more than anything in this world and they expect them to be great persons and well established in future. Throughout the human history, mothers mainly take care of the children and do most of the works for the children. On the contrary, men are mainly busy outside the home to earn the living for the whole family.

父母的责任和角色对于父母让他们的孩子为未来做准备是非常重要的。父亲或母亲对待孩子的方式对他/她未来的身心成长有很大的影响。如果父母不能很好地照顾他们的孩子，那么这些孩子可能会误入歧途，他们会要求父母为他们的不幸负责。每个母亲和父亲爱他或她的孩子胜过世界上的任何事情，他们希望他们成为伟大的人，并在未来建立良好。纵观人类历史，母亲主要是照顾孩子，为孩子做大部分的工作。相反，男人主要在外面忙着养家糊口。

This is not to say that men are not of importance in children caring and they do not know their kids. They are most necessary if children are to appreciate fully the roles of both sexes. But women have proven themselves superior parents as a result of their condition, their less aggressive natures and they are generally better to communicate with kids. Men remain busy at their works and have to stay outside the home most of the time, but women have lots of spare times to share with their children. From the time they are little girls, females learn about nurturing. First with dolls and later perhaps with younger brothers and sisters; girls are given the role of career. Girls see their mothers in the same roles and so it is natural that they identify this as a female activity. Boys, in contrast, learn competitive roles far removed from what it means to nurture. While boys may dream of adventures, girls’ conditioning means they tend to see the future in terms of raising families. Girls also appear to be less aggressive than boys. In *hood, it is men, not women, who prove to be the aggressors in crime and in war. Obviously, in raising children, a more patient, gentle manner is preferable than a more aggressive one. Although there certainly exists gentlemen and aggressive women, by and large, females are less likely to resort to violence in attempting to solve problems.

这并不是说男人在照顾孩子方面不重要，他们不了解自己的孩子。如果孩子们要充分理解两性的角色，他们是最必要的。但是，由于她们的身体状况、她们不那么好斗的性格以及她们通常更善于与孩子交流，女性已经证明了自己是优秀的父母。男人工作很忙，大部分时间都呆在外面，但女人有很多空闲时间和孩子们分享。从她们还是小女孩的时候起，女性就开始学习养育。先是和娃娃，后来可能和弟弟妹妹;女孩被赋予了事业的角色。女孩看到她们的母亲扮演着同样的角色，所以很自然地，她们认为这是一种女性活动。相比之下，男孩学到的竞争角色与培养孩子的意义相去甚远。虽然男孩可能梦想着冒险，但女孩的适应能力意味着他们倾向于从养育家庭的角度来看待未来。女孩似乎也不像男孩那么好斗。成年后，在犯罪和战争中被证明是侵略者的是男人而不是女人。很明显，在抚养孩子的过程中，一个更有耐心，温和的方式比一个更有攻击性的方式更可取。虽然肯定存在绅士和好斗的女性，但总的来说，女性在试图解决问题时不太可能诉诸暴力。

But if we consider that all women are good for their children and men can not raise a kid properly then perhaps it would be a partial judgment. Is not there any family where the mother has died or not present and it is the father who takes care of the children as well as does jobs outside? Certainly, there are lots. In third world countries, fathers are comparatively more educated than the mothers and the take care of their children’s education greatly. A child needs the affection and caring of both father and mother.