2021年9月雅思口语保留题part2&3：一次和朋友争吵的经历

Describe a time when you had an argument with a friend.

You should say:

When it happened

Why you argued

How you resolved this argument

And explain how you felt about this experience

1 On what occasions do people have disagreement?

描述一下你与朋友发生争执的时候。

你应该说。

何时发生的

你们为什么争吵

你们是如何解决这次争吵的

并解释你对这次经历的感受

1 人们在什么场合下会有分歧?

Part2 参考范文

I remember a time last year when I had a bit row with a friend. I still feel a bit bad about it actually. It was actually a really silly disagreement. We had decided to study together at a specific time on the weekend, in the library. He didn’t turn up, and I waited for him for ages. Then I went looking for him on campus and saw him playing basketball with some friends. He made a really lame excuse about his phone not being charged up and how he had forgotten the time. I was really angry because, firstly, he is always late for things, secondly, he always seems to get distracted with（ *扰；分心 ） other interests and social activities when we have an important arrangement, and thirdly, I felt offended that he would give such a terrible excuse for this. I felt insulted to be honest. So, after he had finished his game I found him again and confronted him directly about these three reasons why he upset and annoyed me. He was really defensive about it and instead of apologizing, he came out with another stream of very unbelievable excuses. I felt that he should have simply admitted his faults and told me the truth and apologized and suggested he try better next time to be more reliable. So, the argument went on for a few days, because I would not forgive him. Eventually, after about a week of not speaking to each other, we had a dinner together, in fact, he invited me, and he made a real effort to apologise and said that he was trying to change this terrible habit of his. I felt better then and forgave him. I learned from this that it’s important to be honest and self-critical（ 自省的 ） at times, and this helps to build bridges, especially after falling out with somebody badly.

我记得去年有一次，我和一个朋友发生了一点争吵。事实上，我仍然觉得有点糟糕。这实际上是一个非常愚蠢的分歧。我们决定在周末的一个特定时间在图书馆一起学习。他没有出现，而我等了他很久。然后我去校园里找他，看到他和一些朋友打篮球。他找了一个非常蹩脚的借口，说他的*没电了，他忘记了时间。我真的很生气，因为，第一，他总是迟到，第二，当我们有一个重要的安排时，他似乎总是被其他的兴趣和社会活动分心，第三，我觉得被冒犯了，他竟然会为此给出一个如此糟糕的借口。说实话，我感到被侮辱了。所以，在他玩完游戏后，我再次找到他，直接质问他这三个让我不高兴和恼火的原因。他对此真的很抵触，他没有道歉，而是又找了一大堆非常令人难以置信的借口。我觉得他应该简单地承认自己的错误，告诉我真相并道歉，并建议他下次努力做得更好，更加可靠。于是，争吵持续了几天，因为我不愿意原谅他。最终，在彼此不说话的大约一周后，我们一起吃了顿饭，事实上，他邀请了我，他真的努力道歉，并说他正在努力改变他的这个可怕的习惯。我当时感觉好多了，就原谅了他。我从中了解到，有时诚实和自我批评是很重要的，这有助于建立桥梁，特别是在与某人严重失和之后。

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